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Dumb things Drs say

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Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never harm me Then why do I tend to remember the hurtful, insensitive comment so much clearer than the positive motivating ones? Why is forgiving and forgetting much easier to say than to put into practice?  I expect a level of empathy, compassion and knowledge from other health professionals as I value these qualities in my own practice. My boss is continually reminding us to find the benefit in the situation.  I admit I can only reflectively do this at the best of times and often still feel charged and irritated about the moment. Here are my top insensitive quotes*, I have ingrained in my memory, by health professionals: *please note this is how I remember them.  ‘Maybe it's your faith making you sick’ – Anesthesiologist before going in for my thymectomy. ‘You will never get better unless you stop all your medication and follow my advice’ - GP when I refused to take unknown antibioti...